Poly wobbles: polyamory, motherhood and the division of self…
What’s your heart telling you to do?
I don’t know.’
Maybe, you’re trying too hard to hear it.
– Nicholas Sparks, A Walk to Remember
Polyamory
On monogamous non-monogamy…
‘There’s a lot of sex. But it isn’t about sex.’ – Peter Milligan, The Discipline, Volume One: The Seduction I’ve been thinking a lot about non-monogamy and polyamory recently. I have a couple of posts that I’ve almost finished about a few very specific and personal difficulties I’ve been working through recently, using the act […]
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How I learned about polyamory without realising I was learning about polyamory
Read more "Smutathon 2018: Modesty Blaise and Willie Garvin, or how I learned about polyamory without realising I was learning about polyamory…"All for one, or one for all…
‘For pleasure has no relish unless we share it. – Virginia Woolf, The Common Reader #Poly thought: I am 1000{f9264c1b08ec794f1cf6cd6d13ef8a87ec0de6a492dab0f81db5d3b37fb3799c} fine being secondary as long as I have my own primary. Not being first with anyone is what used to drive me crazy. — C-K (@CoffeeAndKink) April 5, 2017 I saw this tweet from Coffee […]
Read more "All for one, or one for all…"Musing on monogamy…
We talk about the nature of relationships, of men, how love comes in different forms. Passion, she says, you can feel “for the worst man you ever met. But that has nothing to do with a deeper partnership. In such a one, passion stays, but more important is confidence, respect, knowing a man is not […]
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