‘For last year’s words belong to last year’s languageAnd next year’s words await another voice.’–T.S. Eliot, Four Quartets [Content warning: this is a post about the language used to describe sexual violence among other topics so please take care of yourself and skip it if these words could be triggering for you.] ‘As survivor of […]Read more "It’s only words…"
'Anything worth doing is worth overdoing.'– Mick Jagger I have a confession; I like to touch myself after sex. While my body and cunt are still slick and hot and swollen, I like to run my fingers over them to feel what we have done; to feel the traces that our fucking has left on […]Read more "A little bit more…"
‘There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.'– Lemony Snicket, Horseradish Hello, my name is Livvy and I write a sex blog. I write openly about about my sexual experiences, sexual choices […]Read more "I Talk Sex…"
‘We are healthy only to the extent that our ideas are humane.’ – Kurt Vonnegut Jr., Breakfast of Champions I’ve written a few times on this blog about my different ‘sides’ and how the lines between these different versions of me are blurring. My online, personal and work personas were originally well demarcated and I […]Read more "The big problem…"
This month has really has been female orgasm month! It has made me so happy to see all of the open conversations, insightful opinions and interesting discussions. It’s been really enlightening. For me, much of this discussion has surrounded Channel 4’s documentary about the Super Orgasm, a mysterious phenomenon that I’m not sure I fully […]Read more "Guest post from Desire Noire: What’s super about an orgasm?"
‘Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.’ – Helen Keller, The Open Door You know how I like a challenge? This may be the greatest challenge yet… Sex-blogger Coffee and Kink has come up with a brilliant writing challenge that is also an opportunity to raise money for charity! I am so excited […]Read more "Smutathon 2017"
‘For pleasure has no relish unless we share it. – Virginia Woolf, The Common Reader #Poly thought: I am 1000% fine being secondary as long as I have my own primary. Not being first with anyone is what used to drive me crazy. — C-K (@CoffeeAndKink) April 5, 2017 I saw this tweet from Coffee […]Read more "All for one, or one for all…"