The big problem…

‘We are healthy only to the extent that our ideas are humane.’ – Kurt Vonnegut Jr., Breakfast of Champions I’ve written a few times on this blog about my different ‘sides’ and how the lines between these different versions of me are blurring. My online, personal and work personas were originally well demarcated and I […]

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Smutathon 2017

‘Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.’ – Helen Keller, The Open Door You know how I like a challenge? This may be the greatest challenge yet… Sex-blogger Coffee and Kink has come up with a brilliant writing challenge that is also an opportunity to raise money for charity! I am so excited […]

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All for one, or one for all…

‘For pleasure has no relish unless we share it. – Virginia Woolf, The Common Reader #Poly thought: I am 1000% fine being secondary as long as I have my own primary. Not being first with anyone is what used to drive me crazy. — C-K (@CoffeeAndKink) April 5, 2017 I saw this tweet from Coffee […]

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The crying game…

The Terminator: Why do you cry?… John Connor: I don’t know. We just cry. You know, when it hurts. The Terminator: Pain causes it John Connor: No, it’s when there’s nothing wrong with you, but you hurt anyway. You get it? The Terminator: No. – Terminator 2: Judgement Day I read something recently that really […]

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‘If music be the food of love, play on’ – William Shakespeare, Twelfth Night Perhaps daunted by the complex organisational giant that is wedding planning, I often find myself distracted by the smaller, more entertaining elements of the whole endeavour. We don’t yet have a marquee, dinner or dress, but we have started making a […]

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‘There is nothing more harrowing than a deadly hush with the feel of a great noise around it’ – Jessie Douglas Kerruish, The Undying Monster: A Tale of the Fifth Dimension There are times when it is necessary to be quiet. When you’re fucking in the middle of the afternoon and your housemate is watching […]

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